Someone was arguing with me about what is love and was trying to change my view of what is love and whether what I deemed as love was love. It was kinda infuriating. He kept insisting that "intense feelings n excitement and affection is not true love..true love is when u do evrythg to make each other happy n stay tog..not a few months of intense excitment den break up n tink abt each other all the time..dats an immature kinda love which serves no purpose.." yeah the exact words.. which I do not agree with totally. To me, there is no such thing as a mature or immature love, but timing is a factor. At the wrong timings with the wrong level of maturity, real love cannot work out. Doing everything to make each other happy and staying together is part of "handling and management" of a relationship and it is also part of real love. But real love should comprise much more than this, something further, deeper etc. I think love just cannot be defined with words. It's a kind of emotion that cannot be described I guess. The tangible things and actions that come out of it can vary. And it's true that the emotion can be so overwhelming that 'nothing can matter'. Its not like an infatuation with a pretty girl (that is superficial), it's like no matter how she changes, no matter how she looks like, no matter what she faults in, you still want her. Like what my friend told me before : " I love my gf. Yes she may not be the prettiest or hottest girl around. She may not be best in temper etc etc. But no matter who I meet along the way, she is still the one I love. Simply because it is her. Just her. There are always better people around, prettier or better figure or more feminine whatever, but to me, she will be the best no matter what others say."

Something to share from my korean drama addiction.. Part of a song in Rain's "A love to kill" drama series. Couldnt find the song and the translation so this is just part of it which I caught from subtitles while watching. Nice to share.

"I know you don't belong to me
Please don't let me see you
Don't let the feelings develop
Don't let me feel love
The bitterness in my heart
It has turned to love

I love you
Please love me too
No.. we can't fall in love
This has to stop..

I can't pretend I've never loved you
The tears just keep flowing
If I hadn't met you
No we have never met
My heart wouldn't hurt so much
I hate you for exposing me to love
Im forced to live for you
I cannot help myself"